Monday, December 20, 2010

When Silence is Sin

by Patte Smith on Sunday, December 12, 2010 at 4:12pm

Timely, bold, kind, and wisely-directed rebuke is often used by the God of all grace as the means of awakening souls from spiritual death; this is an all-sufficient reason for our being ready to deliver it when occasion demands it. Can souls be won to God by any means? then we will use that means, and look to God the Holy Ghost to bless our efforts. It is frequently a hard and self-denying duty to administer admonition personally either to saints or sinners; but, if we love the souls of men, and would be clear of our brother’s blood, we must school ourselves to it, and make as much a conscience of it as of our prayers...

If men were not corrupt in heart, they would turn from sin of themselves...but, alas! their nature is so depraved that one sin is a prelude to another...Men’s consciences should be sufficient monitors; but...the watchers sleep, and the foes advance. Hence it becomes essential that, by agency from without, warning should be given. Brands must be plucked from the burning, for of themselves they will never leave the fire. Sin makes men—such madmen—that they are quite beside themselves, and sharp methods must be used to restrain them from self-destruction. An ox or an ass in a pit, will struggle to get out; but men are such silly creatures that they will not move hand or foot to escape, but rather delight in their own ruin; we must, therefore, as Jude puts it, “pull them out.”

The Word of God is very plain as to the duty of rebuking sin, although, from the neglect into which the work has fallen, one might have imagined that it was left optional, or allowed, rather than commanded. It is a most weighty observation that, according to God’s Law, silence concerning sin is consent to it.

“And if a soul sin, and hear the voice of swearing, and is a witness, whether he hath seen or known of it; if he do not utter it, then he shall bear his iniquity” (Leviticus 5:1).

“By ill silence to leave men in sin is as bad as by ill speech to draw them to sin. Not to do good, saith our Savior, is to do evil, and not to save is to destroy” ~ Trapp

“And He saith unto them, Is it lawful to do good on the Sabbath days, or to do evil? to save life, or to kill?” (Mark 3:4).

To leave others in their sins unreproved is to be “partakers of other men’s sins.” Paul teaches us this when he writes, “Have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them”—as much as to say, if you do not reprove them, you have fellowship with them. If I see a thief breaking into a house, and give no alarm, am I not, by my silence, an accessory to the act? Without the aid of my silence the burglar could not perpetrate the robbery; if I lend him that assistance, am I not, morally, his accomplice? The same holds good in all cases; but we are not left merely to infer the fact, for the Lord has told us by the mouth of His prophet Ezekiel, “If thou dost not speak to warn the wicked from his way, that wicked man shall die in his iniquity; but his blood will I require at thine hand.” The ruin and sin of others we shall surely partake in if they perish through want of our admonition.

Eli must break his neck for very grief when his sons are cut off in their sin; it was not meet that he should outlive those whom he had not endeavored to preserve from ruin by timely rebuke: had he made their ears to tingle with his upbraidings, his ears might never have tingled with the news of the terrible judgments of God.

How few Christians will be able to say with Paul, “I am pure from the blood of all men”?—none of us can be in that happy case if we neglect the duty of warning our neighbors for their good.

The law and the gospel with one voice call us to the duty we are now endeavoring to enforce. The law: “Thou shalt not hate thy brother in thine heart: thou shalt in any wise rebuke thy neighbor, and not suffer sin upon him” (Leviticus 19:17)..Those who forget this duty cannot plead that they are not sufficiently reminded of it, for the Word is very full and clear upon the point; and yet the most of us are so negligent in it that one might imagine we respected the foolish and cruel law... that none should tell his neighbor of any calamity which had befallen him, but every one should be left, by process of time, to find out his own troubles for himself. Alas! that sinners should hardly hear of hell until they come there!

 Scriptural testimony will have the most force with us; and what saith it?—”The rod and reproof give wisdom” (Proverbs 29:15). “Reprove one that hath understanding, and he will understand knowledge” (Proverbs 19:25). “Let the righteous smite me,” saith David, “it shall be a kindness.” He calls it “an excellent oil, which shall not break my head” (Psalm 141:4). Christ styles it “a pearl and a holy thing” (Matthew 7:6). Solomon prefers it before silver, gold; and rubies; it is the merchandise of wisdom which is better than precious treasures (Proverbs 3:14, 15). He describes it “As an earring of gold, and an ornament of fine gold” (Proverbs 25:12). Our Savior encourages us to this much-forgotten service by the prospect of success, “Thou hast gained thy brother” (Matthew 18:15). To gain a soul is better than to win the world, as he has assured us who knew the worth of souls better than any of us..You cannot do your friend a greater kindness than to admonish him in the Lord, nor can you wish your enemy a greater injury than to go unrebuked.

Exhort one another daily,” says the apostle,  “while it is called to-day, lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin.”

How many a Naaman might have been washed from his leprosy if his Christian servants had been earnest enough to speak with him on soul matters! But, alas! Blood-guiltiness is hardly felt to be a sin in these days! Soul-murder is scarcely ever wept over! A poor wretch dies of starvation, and men cry out because bread was not given him; but when souls sink into damnation for lack of knowledge, they who withhold the bread of heaven will not allow their consciences to trouble them. May the Lord give us tenderness of heart to repent the neglect of the past, and holy resolution to labor more heartily in the future.

Charles Haddon Spurgeon

Modern Day Herods: ABORTION SLAUGHTER OF INNOCENTS

by Patte Smith on Wednesday, December 8, 2010 at 1:25pm

"As we begin to move closer to Christmas, to the timeless narrative of the Nativity, and the story of Herod’s evil, we should bear in mind that we are all called to do something about the slaughter of innocents {by abortion} in our day." ~ Gerard Nadal

What would I have done? Would I have had the courage to stand against the tyrannical King who ordered the slaughter of innocents? Would I have helped Mary and Joseph, or any other mother and child escape the murderous wrath of a jealous King? I’d like to think that the answer is YES.

...Herod has been eclipsed by an army of bloody tyrants who walk the corridors of power today...the agreement is that the price of power is BABIES MUST DIE.

Yes, I used the imperative.

No, it’s not melodramatic.

We have long since passed some academic right to choose abortion. The field of Obstetrics brings unrelenting pressure to bear on women who might be carrying a less than perfect child. Trisomic conditions are cause for summary execution. Women and men are brow-beaten, called selfish (and worse) for wanting to bring their special needs children into the world. If the baby is anencephalic, parents are called monsters for bringing the child to term.

No, it seems that there is a mandate now for abortion. And the list of those marked as unworthy of life continues to grow.

...modern day Herods.

... children... ground us, make us face maturity by calling us to focus on their utter helplessness. They teach us the meaning of love. They teach us redemptive suffering. They save us from eternal adolescent narcissism, and draw us closer to God.

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So as we begin to move closer to Christmas, to the timeless narrative of the Nativity, and the story of Herod’s evil, we should bear in mind that we are all called to do something about the slaughter of innocents in our day.

I don’t know what I would have done then.
I do know what we are called to do now.
~ Gerard Nadal
Excerpted from: http://gerardnadal.com/2010/12/08/herods-host/

Friends, I urge you to prayerfully seek the help & strength of Jesus Christ to do something to intervene to save imperiled infants in your city. Google your city & 'abortion' & then go & take a visible AND audible stand for life & eternity. Lift up your voice for the voiceless. In the Name of Jesus;

Rescue those who are being taken away to death; hold back those who are stumbling to the slaughter. Proverbs 24:11

For advice on how to begin reaching out to the perishing orphans at the abortuary near you:
http://sanctuaryministries.blogspot.com/2010/04/how-to-begin-to-witness-at-killing.html

Together for Life & Eternity,
Patte Smith
Sanctuary Ministries
www.sanctuaryministries.blogspot.com
Schoolmaster Ministries
www.schoolmasterministries.weebly.com

Street Preaching: Is it in the Bible?

by Patte Smith on Sunday, November 21, 2010 at 7:14pm

"Street preaching. . . is it Biblical?"

Not because it is always fruitful, or comfortable or for that matters safe. But because it is the Word of God, and the gospel which is the power of God unto salvation and we are commanded to.

Matthew 5 Jesus sermon on the mount taught them openly

Jesus went out by the sea and taught them, Mark 2

Again Jesus teaches them open air by the sea, Mark 4 And calls them in Mark 4, preaching calling the to repent

Again out by the Jordan Jesus taught them openly Mark 10

And then when sending out the 12 to the villages tells them to preach Matt 10

Matt 11 He goes to the villages to preach

Jesus said, "Go out into the highways and hedges, and compel them to come in, that my house may be filled." Luke 14:23

Acts 8:25 they went preaching the gospel in many villages

Day of Pentecost was open air preaching Acts 2 Acts 10:42 the disciples declare Jesus told them to preach to the people.

Pauls says Acts 20:20 ". . . I taught you publicly. . ."

Romans 10:15 says that people must be sent preaching that the lost would hear.

Titus 1:3 manifested His Word through preaching

2 Timothy 4:2 is a call and command to preach the Word

Dozens of dozens of verses could be considered, and there is no escape that true believers in Jesus Christ are called to share the gospel at all times and in every place, and preach the gospel. The only way to avoid the clear call to go and make disciples, to share the gospel and to preach the Word, is to never pick up the Bible and read the New Testament for oneself, for after this, one is either exhorted and encouraged, or convicted of sins of omission.

Rich Monson

Jesus, the Water of Life

by Patte Smith on Sunday, November 21, 2010 at 6:04pm


The Drop which Grew into a Torrent: A personal experience
~ Charles Spurgeon


All my soul was dry and dead
Till I learned that Jesus bled;
Bled and suffer’d in my place,
Bearing sin in matchless grace.

Then a drop of Heavenly love
Fell upon me from above,
And by secret, mystic art
Reached the centre of my heart.

Glad the story I recount,
How that drop became a fount,
Bubbled up a living well,
Made my heart begin to swell.

All within my soul was praise,
Praise increasing all my days;
Praise which could not silent be:
Floods were struggling to be free.

More and more the waters grew,
Open wide the flood-gates flew,
Leaping forth in streams of song
Flowed my happy life along.

Lo! the river clear and sweet
Laved my glad, obedient feet!
Soon it rose up to my knees,
And I praised and prayed with ease.

Now my soul in praises swims,
Bathes in songs, and psalms and hymns;
Plunges down into the deeps,
All her powers in worship steeps.

Hallelujah! O my Lord,
Torrents from my soul are poured!
I am carried clean away,
Praising, praising all the day.

In an ocean of delight,
Praising God with all my might,
Self is drowned. So let it be:
Only Christ remains to me.

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There is a river whose streams make glad the city of God, 
 the holy habitation of the Most High.
Psalm 46:4

Jesus said "... whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again.
The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.”
John 4:14

Come, all you who are thirsty, come to the waters;
and you who have no money, come, buy and eat!
Come, buy wine and milk without money and without cost.
...The LORD will guide you always;
He will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched land
and will strengthen your frame.
You will be like a well-watered garden,
like a spring whose waters never fail.
Isaiah 55:1;58:11

For the Lamb at the center of the throne will be their Shepherd;
He will lead them to springs of living water.
And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes.
Revelation 7:17

Dead Wrong

by Patte Smith on Sunday, November 21, 2010 at 10:21am


You flatter them; and what happens?
...they dance upon their own graves.
~ Spurgeon

The wicked dance upon their own graves. And the churchmen's tunes play on. The pastors fiddle while babies die and their neighbors burn. 

"There is a way that seems right to a man,
but its end is the way to death."
~ Proverbs 14:12

"How can I help weeping when you will not weep for yourselves,
though your immortal souls are on the verge of destruction!"
 ~ George Whitefield

"The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure.
Who can understand it?”
Jeremiah 17:9

For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery,
sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander.
These are what make a man unclean.
Matthew 15:19

"The day when God shall judge the secrets of men
by Jesus Christ according to my gospel."
Romans 2:16

Brethren, we must preach the coming of the Lord, and preach it somewhat more than we have done; because it is the driving power of the gospel. Too many have kept back these truths, and thus the bone has been taken out of the arm of the gospel. Its point has been broken; its edge has been blunted. The doctrine of judgment to come is the power by which men are to be aroused. There is another life; the Lord will come a second time; judgment will arrive; the wrath of God will be revealed. Where this is not preached, I am bold to say the gospel is not preached. It is absolutely necessary to the preaching of the gospel of Christ that men be warned as to what will happen if they continue in their sins.

Ho, ho, sir surgeon, you are too delicate to tell the man that he is ill! You hope to heal the sick without their knowing it. You therefore flatter them; and what happens? They laugh at you; they dance upon their own graves. At last they die! Your delicacy is cruelty; your flatteries are poisons; you are a murderer. Shall we keep men in a fool's paradise? Shall we lull them into soft slumbers from which they will awake in hell? Are we to become helpers of their damnation by our smooth speeches? In the Name of God we will not. It becomes every true minister of Christ to cry aloud and spare not, for God hath set a day in which he will "judge the secrets of men by Jesus Christ according to my gospel."
 ~ Charles Haddon Spurgeon

excerpted from the sermon: 'Coming Judgment of the Secrets of Men'
http://www.spurgeon.org/sermons/1849.htm

The 9th commandment warns: Do not bear false witness against your neighbor!

by Patte Smith on Monday, November 15, 2010 at 4:00pm


Excerpted from:

The Ten Commandments
The Ninth Commandment
By Thomas Watson



      "Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbour.' Exodus 20:16

The tongue which at first was made to be an organ of God's praise, is now become an instrument of unrighteousness. This commandment binds the tongue to its good behaviour. God has set two natural fences to keep in the tongue, the teeth and lips; and this commandment is a third fence set about it, that it should not break forth into evil. It has a prohibitory and a mandatory part: the first is set down in plain words, the other is clearly implied.

      I. The prohibitory part of the commandment, or, what it forbids in general. It forbids anything which may tend to the disparagement or prejudice of our neighbour. More particularly, two things are forbidden in this commandment.

      [1] Slandering our neighbour. This is a sin against the ninth commandment...Slandering is to report things of others unjustly.' They laid to my charge things that I knew not.' Psalm 35: 11. ..They raised for a slander of Paul, that he preached men might do evil that good might come of it.' We be slanderously reported; and some affirm that we say, "Let us do evil, that good may come".' Rom 3: 8. ...Holiness itself is no shield from slander. The lamb's innocence will not preserve it from the wolf. Christ, the most innocent upon earth, was reported to be a friend of sinners. John the Baptist was a man of a holy and austere life, and yet they said of him, 'He has a devil.' Matt 11: 18. The Scripture calls slandering, smiting with the tongue. 'Come, and let us smite him with the tongue.' Jer 18: 18. ...As it is a sin against this commandment to raise a false report of another, so it is to receive a false report before we have examined it. 'Lord, who shall dwell in thy holy hill?' Psa 15: 1... We must not only not raise a false report, but not take it up. He that raises a slander, carries the devil in his tongue; and he that receives it, carries the devil in his car.

[2] The second thing forbidden in this commandment is false witness.

Here three sins are condemned:
(1) Speaking.
(2) Witnessing.
(3) Swearing that which is false... [against your neighbour].

(1) Speaking that which is false. 'Lying lips are abomination to the Lord.' Prov 12: 22. To lie is to speak that which one knows to be an untruth. There is nothing more contrary to God than a lie. The Holy Ghost is called 'the Spirit of Truth.' 1 John 4: 6. ... This sin highly provokes God. Ananias and Sapphire were struck dead for telling a lie. Acts 5: 5. The furnace of hell is heated for liars. 'Without are sorcerers, and whosoever loveth and maketh a lie.' Rev 22: 15. O abhor this sin! ...When thou speakest, let thy word be as authentic as thy oath. Imitate God, who is the pattern of truth...'The character of a man that shall go to heaven, is that He speaketh the truth in his heart.' Psa 15: 2.


(2) That which is condemned in the commandment is, witnessing that which is false. Thou shalt not bear false witness.' There is a twofold bearing false witness:
1. There is bearing false witness for another.
2. Bearing false witness against another.

      Bearing false witness for another; as when we give our testimony for a person who is criminal and guilty, and we justify him as if he were innocent. 'Which justify the wicked for reward.' Isa 5: 23. He that seeks to make a wicked man just, makes himself unjust.

      It is bearing false witness against another, when we accuse him in open court falsely. This is to imitate the devil, who is 'the accuser of the brethren.' Though the devil is no adulterer, yet he is a false witness. Solomon says, 'A man that beareth false witness against his neighbour, is a maul and a sword.' Prov 25: 18. ...A false witness perverts the place of judicature; he corrupts the judge by making him pronounce a wrong sentence, and causes the innocent to suffer. Vengeance will find out the false witness. 'A false witness shall not be unpunished.' Prov 19: 5. If the witness be a false witness, and has testified falsely against his brother; then shall ye do unto him, as he had thought to have done unto his brother;'if, for instance, he had thought to have taken away his life, his own life shall go for it.' Deut 19: 18, 19.

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      (2) They are reproved who make no conscience of slandering others...The slanderer wounds three at once: he wounds him that is slandered; he wounds him to whom he reports the slander, by causing uncharitable thoughts to arise up in his mind against the party slandered; and he wounds his own soul, by reporting of another what is false. This is a great sin; and I wish I could say it is not common. You may kill a man in his name as well as in his person. Some are loath to take away their neighbour's goods -- conscience would fly in their face; but better take away their corn out of their field, their wares out of their shop, than take away their good name. This is a sin for which no reparation can be made; a blot in a man's name, being like a blot on white paper, which will never be got out. Surely God will visit for this sin. If idle words shall be accounted for, shall not unjust slanders? The Lord will make inquisition one day, as well for names as for blood. Oh therefore take heed of this sin!... Is it not a greater sin to defame a saint, who is a member of Christ? The heathen, by the light of nature, abhorred the sin of slandering.


      (3) They are reproved who are so wicked as to bear false witness against others. These are monsters in nature, unfit to live in a civil society...Jezebel, who suborned two false witnesses against Naboth, was'thrown down from a window and the dogs licked her blood.' 2 Kings 9: 33. Oh, tremble at this sin! A perjured person is the devil's excrement. He is cursed in his name, and seared in his conscience. Hell gapes for such a windfall.
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For exhortation... Let all take heed of breaking this commandment, by lying, slandering, and bearing false witness. To avoid these sins get the fear of God. Why does David say, 'The fear of the Lord is clean'? Psa 19: 9. Because it cleanses the heart from malice, and the tongue from slander. 'The fear of the Lord is clean:' it is to the soul as lightning to the air, which cleanses it. Get love to your neighbour. Lev 19: 18. If we love a friend, we shall not speak or attest anything to his prejudice. Men's minds are cankered with envy and hatred; hence come slandering and false witnessing. Love is a lovely grace; 'love thinketh no evil.' 1 Cor 13: 5. It puts the best interpretation upon another's words. Love is a well-wisher, and it is rare to speak ill of him we wish well to. Love is that which cements Christians together; it is the healer of division, and the hinderer of slander.
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Let those whose lot it is to meet with slanderers and false accusers:
[1] Labour to make a sanctified use of it... If you are slandered, or falsely accused, make a good use of it. See if you have no sin unrepented of, for which God may suffer you to be calumniated and reproached. See if you have not at any time wronged others in their name, and said that of them which you cannot prove; then lay your hand on your mouth, and confess the Lord is righteous to let you fall under the scourge of the tongue.

[2] If you are slandered, or falsely accused, but know your own innocence, be not too much troubled; let your rejoicing be the witness of your conscience... [Let this be a bulwark, to know oneself guiltless]. A good conscience is a wall of brass, that will be able to stand against a false witness. As no flattery can heal a bad conscience, so no slander can hurt a good one. God will clear up the names of His people. 'He shall bring forth thy righteousness as the light.' Psa 37: 6. As He will wipe away tears from the eyes, so will He wipe off reproaches from the name. Believers shall come forth out of all their slanders and reproaches, as the wings of a dove, covered with silver, and her feathers with yellow gold.'

(3) Be very thankful to God, if He has preserved you from slander and false witness... We ought to acknowledge this to be a great mercy before God.
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 II. The mandatory part of the commandment implied is that we stand up for others and vindicate them when they are injured by lying lips. This is the sense of the commandment, not only that we should not slander falsely or accuse others; but that we should witness for them, and stand up in their defence, when we know them to be traducedA man may wrong another as well by silence as by slander, when he knows him to be wrongfully accused, yet does not speak in his behalf. If others cast false aspersions on any, we should wipe them off. When the apostles were filled with the wine of the Spirit, and were charged with drunkenness, Peter openly maintained their innocence. 'These are not drunken, as ye suppose.'Acts 2: 15. Jonathan knowing David to be a worthy man, and all those things Saul said of him to be slanders, vindicated him. 'David has not sinned against thee; his works have been to thee-ward very good. Wherefore then wilt thou sin against innocent blood, to slay David without a cause?' 1 Sam 19: 4, 5. When the primitive Christians were falsely accused for incest, and killing their children, Tertullian wrote a famous apology in their vindication. This is to act the part both of a friend and of a Christian, to be an advocate for another, when he is wronged in his good name.

http://articles.ochristian.com/article12346.shtml

How are you to respond when you are harshly (& perhaps unjustly) judged?

by Patte Smith on Monday, November 15, 2010 at 1:00pm

Job with well-meaning (but flawed) religious friends


cen·sure
–noun
1. strong or vehement expression of disapproval

2. an official reprimand, as by a legislative body of one of its members.

–verb (used with object)
3. to criticize or reproach in a harsh or vehement manner

–verb (used without object)
4. to give censure, adverse criticism, disapproval, or blame.

rash
-adjective
1. acting or tending to act too hastily or without due consideration.

2. characterized by or showing too great haste or lack of consideration


Have you ever endured stinging, harsh criticism by others? Perhaps within the context of 'the church' or with another Christian? Maybe you have heard negative untruths or exaggerations about your pastor or your church.  It hurts, doesn't it? Sometimes you are so suprised by the censuring that you take the defensive. In his wonderful biblical treatise against censoriousness 'Cases And Directions Against Censoriousness And Unwarrantable Judging' Richard Baxter provides godly advice for those who suffer the humiliation and injustice of hasty censure. I have taken an excerpt from his article and posted it below. May you sense the help of the Holy Spirit when your pastor or church suffer maligning or when you walk through a painful experience or season of being the object of rash censure.

In His Grace,
Patte Smith


Cases And Directions Against Censoriousness And Unwarrantable Judging

Directions for those that are rashly censured
by Richard Baxter


Direct. 1

Remember when you are injured by censures, that God is now trying your humility, charity, and patience; and therefore be most studious to exercise and preserve these three.

1. Take heed lest pride make you disdainful to the censurer; a humble man can bear contempt; hard censures hurt men so far as they are proud.

2. Take heed lest imbecility add to your impatience, and concur with pride: cannot you bear greater things than these? Impatience will disclose that badness in yourselves, which will make you censured much more; and it will show you as weak in one respect as the censurers are in another.

3. Take heed lest their fault do not draw you to overlook or undervalue that serious godliness which is in many of the censorious; and that you do not presently judge them hypocrites or schismatics, and abate your charity to them, or incline to handle them more roughly than the tenderness of Christ alloweth you. Remember that in all ages it hath been thus: the church hath had peevish children within, as well as persecuting enemies without; insomuch as Paul, Rom. 14 giveth you the picture of these times, and giveth them this counsel, which from him I am giving you. The weak in knowledge were censorious, and judged the strong; the strong in knowledge were weak in charity, and contemned the weak: just as now one party saith, These are superstitious persons, and anti-Christian; the other saith, What giddy schismatics are these! but Paul chideth them both; one sort for censuring, and the other for despising them.

Direct. II. Take heed lest whilst you are impatient under their censures, you fall into the same sin yourselves. Do they censure you for differing ill some forms or ceremonies from them? Take heed lest you over-censure them for their censoriousness: if you censure them as hypocrites who censure you as superstitious, you condemn yourselves while you are condemning them. For why will not censuring too far, prove you hypocrites also, if it prove them such?

Direct. III. Remember that Christ beareth with their weakness, who is wronged by it more than you, and is more against it. He doth not quit his title to them for their frowardness, nor cease his love, nor turn every infant out of his family that will cry and wrangle, nor every patient out of his hospital that doth complain and groan; and we must imitate our Lord and love where he loveth, and pity where he pitieth, and be merciful as our heavenly Father is merciful.

Direct. IV. Remember how amiable a thing the least degree of grace is, even when it is clouded and blotted with infirmities. It is the divine nature, and the image of God, and the seed of glory; and therefore as an infant hath the noble nature of a man, and in all his weakness is much more honourable than the best of brutes (so that it is death to kill an infant, but not a beast): so is the most infirm and froward true Christian more honourable and amiable than the most splendid infidel. Bear with them in love and honor to the image and interest of Christ.

Direct. V. Remember that you were once weak in grace yourselves; and if happy education under peaceable guides did not prevent it, it is two to one but you were yourselves censorious. Bear therefore with others as you bear with crying children, because you were once a child yourself. Not that the sin is ever the better, but you should be the more compassionate.

Direct. VI. Remember that your own strength and judgment is so great a mercy, that you should the easilier bear with a censorious tongue. The rich and noble can bear with the envious, remembering that it is happy to have that worth or felicity which men do envy. You suffer fools gladly, seeing you yourselves are wise. If you are in the right let losers talk.

Direct. VII. Remember that we shall be shortly together in heaven, where they will recant their censures, and you will easily forgive them, and perfectly love them. And will not the foresight of such a meeting cause you to bear with them, and forgive and love them now?

Direct. VIII. Remember how inconsiderable a thing it is as to your own interest, to be judged of man; and that you stand or fall to the judgment of the Lord, 1 Cor. 4:3,4. What are you the better or the worse for the thoughts or words of a man; when your salvation or damnation lieth upon God's judgment. It is too much hypocrisy, to be too much desirous of man's esteem and approbation, and too much troubled at his disesteem and censure, and not to be satisfied with the approbation of God. Read what is written against man-pleasing, part i.

Direct. IX. Make some advantage of other men's censures, for your own proficiency. If good men censure you, be not too quick in concluding that you are innocent, and justifying yourselves; but be suspicious of yourselves, lest they should prove the right, and examine yourselves with double diligence. If you find that you are clear in the point that you are censured for, suspect and examine lest some other sin hath provoked God to try you by these censures; and if you find not any other notable fault, let it make you the more watchful by way of prevention, seeing the eyes of God and men are on you; and it may he God's warning, to bid you take heed for the time to come. If you are thus brought to repentance, or to the more careful life, by occasion of men's censures, they will prove so great a benefit to you, that you may bear them the more easily.

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